My uncle Edward Kapteina, left c. 1917 - we called him "Uncle Doc". Right, another Springdale doughboy whose name escapes me. |
As
these old doughboys died off, Armistice Day began to lose its significance to
Americans so now we call it Veteran's Day to honor everyone who's served their country.
In France, they honor all their veterans, too, but the day hasn't lost it's
significance and probably never will. I thought about those Springdale commemorations
as I wandered down to the local memorial at about 10:30 this morning.
The
monument "Aux Morts de la Guerre La Ville de Bordeaux 1914-1918", "To the Bordeaux War Dead" stands,
appropriately, across the street from the biggest cemetery in town. Carved into
a huge stone wall are the names of every Bordelais killed in WWI and there must
be over 1,000 entries. Beneath these have been added the dead from WWII, no
small number itself. Almost every town and village in France has a monument like this
and no matter how small the place, the numbers are astonishing. Every American who buys into the
"cheese eating surrender monkey" bullshit would do well to consider
that France lost 1.4 million men between 1914-1918, nearly 5 % of it's
population. By the time the war was only a few weeks old 100,000 French
soldiers had already been killed.
Several
of my great uncles, Gunia and Kapteina, fought in WW I and the name Durand, my
grandmothers' name (and one of the most common in France) is etched 13 times into
the Bordeaux monument so I felt I had at least a small stake in the local
ceremony. Things got underway promptly at 11 and even though the uniforms look
pretty much the same as ours, I felt a little out of place. We've only been
here for about 2 months, but the first few minutes of this ceremony made me
realize no matter how long we stay, I'm always going to be an outsider. It
isn't the language barrier as I'd have felt the same standing in Trafalgar
Square. The history, traditions, the protocols and even the music are all
different and I'll never fully appreciate the significance of these things
since I wasn't brought up here.
Something
else occurred to me as I watched about a dozen local military and police
officers have medals pinned to their chests. What passes for patriotism in
America has become cheap and easy because it isn't backed up by anything
meaningful. All you have to do is put a dollar store "Support our
Troops" magnet on your car, wrap yourself in the flag (both of which were
probably made in China), thank everybody for their service, chant "USA" at the Olympics and roundly
denounce everyone who doesn't do the same. Then for good measure you can refuse
to sacrifice one dime in taxes to help pay for 10 years of sending the same
weary troops off again and again to some Middle East shithole. Enough
preaching.
Today
for the first time, I got a little homesick. La Marseillaise could be the world's most stirring anthem but it's
not The Star Spangled Banner. And the
band played marches that were appropriately martial but nothing I recognized.
So I went home, stuck my iPod in the Bose player and played The Stars and Stripes Forever.
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